5 Topics You Should Never Discuss On A First Date

A first date can be the beginning of a beautiful relationship. It can also be the end of something that could have been great. One thing that ruins most first dates, and prevents a couple from having a second date, is having the wrong conversations. There are some conversation topics which should be avoided on the first date.

Couple_6934153152_lAvoid Conversations About the Ex

One conversation which can put a damper on a first date is a discussion about your ex. If you talk about what a horrible person your ex was, you can come off as being bitter and unforgiving. It may also give your date the idea that you cannot let go of the past.

If you ended things on a good note with your ex, and you remained friends, you should also avoid that topic. If you go on about what a great person your ex is, your date will get the idea that you still have a thing for your ex. For at least the first few dates, you should avoid any type of conversations related to your ex.


Avoid Conversations About Marriage and Children

It is a good idea to make sure that you and your significant other are on the same page about marriage and children. The first date, however, is not the time to bring it up. If you go on and on during your date about how badly you want to get married and start a family, there is a very good chance that you can scare them away. The marriage and children conversation can wait, for at least a few dates.


Your Past

Everyone has some things in the past, which they are not proud of. It is best not to bring up your sorted past on your first date. While the conversation may need to come up in the future, you can scare a person away if you tell it all on the first date.



It is a good idea to avoid conversations about sex on the first date. If you start talking about how long it has been since your last sexual encounter, or if you discuss your favorite sexual position, it may give your date the wrong idea. This type of talk can lead them to believe that you are looking for sex, and nothing more. This can lead to a very awkward goodbye at the end of the date. It can also scare your date off, believing that you are only looking for sex, when they want something more. The conversation regarding sex should be left for another time in the future.


Politics and Religion

These are two very heavy topics, which should be avoided on the first date. Your first date with someone should be fun and carefree. The last thing that you want to do is have a conversation that is so serious, and can possibly create animosity between you and your date. It is a good idea to wait until later in the relationship to have these conversations.


The last thing that you want to do is ruin a first date with someone who you had a connection with, by having the wrong conversation. The best way to ensure a great first date, and the offer of a second is to keep the conversation light and breezy, and just have a good time.

About the Author

Datingmish, like many other individuals of his age, have suffered through relationships that just didn't seem to go anywhere. He tried the online dating world and while he did make a few friends here or there. That is where Datingmish decided to come up with this blog. he started to write about his times, about his dates and about the experiences he had. From there, other individuals took notice of what he was doing and decided they wanted to help out.

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